Saturday, May 19, 2012

Mom & Dara's Visit, Part 3: Phnom Penh

On the afternoon of May 5, Mom, Dara and I caught the only daily Air Asia flight from Bangkok to Phnom Penh. I didn't have any guesthouse reservations, because I heard it was really easy to find lots of cheap places to stay. However, after we landed and bought our $20 visas, there was literally no information center or public airport phones. So, we went outside, found a tuk tuk driver (he was really nice) and knew of plenty of guesthouses. Phnom Penh felt completely different than any part of Thailand I had been to. It felt really poor. There were many more motor bikes, only really beat up cars (except for the embassies' Range Rovers and Lexus). The roads were sometimes made of dirt and dusty, and there were very few other tourists. However, there were also many things that felt similar to Thailand- yet different. The Buddhist temples and the Royal Palace could have had me fooled for Thailand, the darker skinned Cambodians looked like many of my students, and I saw advertisements for traditional Khmer dancing- which looked an awful lot like Thailand's traditional "Khon" dance. Even the written language Khmer (pronounced "Khm-eye") could be mistaken for Thai on first glance. One thing that was definitely different, were the tons and tons of baguettes everywhere you went; Cambodia was colonized by the French, and the legacy of fresh baguette bread has remained! I have never once seen a baguette in Thailand.

There isn't much to do in Phnom Penh, but it is a city with extraordinary history, and the tuk tuk drivers have the main attractions down to a tee. We only spent one night and the following morning in Phnom Penh, but we were able to make it to the Royal Palace, the Choeung Ek Killing Fields, and the Tuol Sleng Prison. I only briefly learned about the Cambodian Genocide in a course on genocides in college, but actually being at the location was extremely moving and educational. The Cambodian Genocide took place from 1975-1979 under the Khmer Rouge regime (led by Pol Pot). To greatly simplify, the Khmer Rouge soldiers consisted mainly of former farmers and Cambodians from rural areas. They were motivated by promises of equality, and they took over after the fall of the Lon Nol government. They started by murdering any people who used to work for this government, former capitalists, and "city" people. Generally, they also killed anyone with an education: professors, doctors, students, monks, and anyone who wore glasses. They murdered them brutally and slowly- usually with tools that were used for farming such as pick axes and hoes, and they used torture to make people turn in their own parents and friends as "traitors," even if they were not. The Tuol Sleng Prison used to be a school, but was turned into a prison and torture center for victims awaiting their deaths at the Killing Fields. Being at Tuol Sleng was especially erie for me because it aesthetically reminded me so much of the school I currently teach at in Thailand. Very little has been changed from the Tuol Sleng Prison or the Killing Fields, so it was a very raw, real experience. Out of a total population of 8 million Cambodians in 1970, nearly 3 million were killed. 
Disclaimer: Some of these pictures are very disturbing.
For further reading and to learn more about the Cambodian Genocide, I highly recommend the book "First They Killed My Father."




Downtown Phnom Penh
That bicycle looking carriage is called a "cyclo"

View from our tuk tuk

A monk rides a motorbike right outside the Royal Palace

The Royal Palace

Not too too crowded

Beautiful French-inspired gardens

Dara, Mom, and me

Incense, lotus flowers, and the tree that Buddha's mother
gave birth to him under...felt very similar to Thailand.

"Here was the place where trucks transporting victims to be exterminated from
Tuol Sleng Prison and other places in the country stopped. Trucks would arrive
2 or 3 times a month or every 3 weeks. Each truck had 20 to 30 frightened, 
blindfolded, and silent prisoners. When the trucks arrived, the victims were led directly 
to be executed at the ditches and pits or were sent to be detained in the Dark 
and Gloomy Prison nearby. After january 07, 1979, one truck remained, 
but it has since been taken away."

"Here, was the place where victims transported from Tuol Sleng and other
places in the country were detained. Usually, when the truck arrived, the victims
were executed immediately. However, as the number of victims to be executed was 
increased up to over 300 per day, executioners failed in attempt to kill them within a 
day. That is why they were detained for execution the next day. The detention was 
constructed from wood with galvanized steel roof. Its wall was built with two layers
of flat wood were to darken and to also prevent prisoners from seeing each other.
Unfortunately, the dark and gloomy detention was dismantled in 1979."

Just an unusual tree I spotted

"Here, was the place where executioners stationed permanently at Choeung Ek
worked. The office as well as the Killing Fields were equipped with electric power 
which enabled them to conduct executions and to read and sign the rosters that 
accompanied the victims to the site at night time."

"Here, was the place where chemical substances such as DDT was kept.
Executioners scattered these substances over dead bodies of the victims at once
after the execution. This action had two purposes: Firstly to eliminate the stench
from the dead bodies which could potentially raise suspicion among people
working nearby the Killing Fields and secondly was to kill off victims who were 
buried alive."

The Killing Fields used to be surrounded by orchard trees.

"Here, was the place where the killing tools such as shackles, 
leg irons, a hatchet, knives, hoes, digging hoes, shovels, iron ox cart axles
were stored. This instrument was lost in 1979. The storage room was constructed 
from wood with a galvanized steel roof."

Mass grave of 450 people has now been covered with a 
straw roof and surrounded by a small fence.

Yes, those are human bones that are still washing up
in the heavy monsoon rains.

These children interrupted us during the tour. Trying to be
friendly foreigners, we obliged and answered their questions-
even though our audio tour was NOT easy. Then these two little
kids placed their palms together in a wai and started chanting the 
CREEPIEST "Please give us money, we have no money!!!"
chant that they'd clearly been trained to do, and memorized.
It was really disturbing. Beggar children are to be found anywhere
and everywhere in Cambodia, especially near the tourist areas.

Pits

Clothing from victims
Notice there are some children's clothing, too.

"The Killing Tree"
Executioners would hold babies by their feet and then bash
their brains against the tree. They then would throw them 
in a pit, just to the right.

The pit where babies were thrown after being beaten against the tree,
 along with their mothers, after having been raped. 

Bones and teeth of victims. Notice above the box there
are some more bones, and up close there were teeth as 
well that people continue to find.

"The Magic Tree"
This tree hung loudspeakers that blared Khmer Rouge 
propaganda. It was played very loudly to mask the screams 
of those being murdered. On the tour, they play a clip of similar
music. I have never heard a more erie sound. 

More killing pits, now excavated.

Victims' clothing still remains in some areas.
This garment is buried deep in the ground, but a tattered
piece of it has surfaced.

The Memorial Stupa

Skulls...

and skulls and skulls.

The audio tour tells you that if you look closely you 
can often tell how the person died based on bashes or 
cracks on certain parts of the skull.

The Stupa, housing hundreds of skulls, extends
high up into the sky.

Cambodian People's Party signs were EVERYWHERE.

More signs...

Dara in the back of our tuk tuk

Tuol Sleng Prison

An preserved room, where people were tortured.

Rules at the prison. Notably, one rules states:
"While getting lashes or electrification you must not cry at all."

Tuol Sleng Prison was converted from a former school.

View from the third level. You can see below what looks
to be a hanging-contraption, but I am not sure about this.

Tuol Sleng Prison is quiet now.

The street outside of our hotel.

Baguettes?! We are not in Thailand anymore.

French influence still abounds.

Friday, May 18, 2012

Mom & Dara's Visit, Part 2: Bangkok

Due to the fact that I needed to be in Bangkok on the evening of April 30 for my four day Fulrbight mid-grant meeting (hard to believe), I quickly booked my Mom and sister on the same flight as me (I don't know what they would be able to do in Ubon on their own without me haha). It worked out perfectly, because we weren't split up, and we were able to get an extra room at the Ibis Sathorn Bangkok hotel- the hotel where the rest of the Fulbrights were staying/ where my meetings were. It didn't even feel like I had meetings because it was so fun having Mom and Dar just down the hall in the same hotel with me. While I went to my meetings during the day, they explored and went sightseeing (usually to places I'd already seen), so it was perfect. My meetings were great, and were over everyday around 430pm. So, every night we were able to eat dinner together and play in the evenings. We ate at a delicious Indian restaurant one night, and another delicious Chinese restaurant down the street the other night. We also tried a Thai restaurant down the road that wasn't the best, but we ate with a nice Canadian man who was traveling alone. Adventures :)

Mom and Dara went to the Grand Palace, Wat Po, Wat Arun, and Jim Thompson's house to name a few. They also had a few days of wedding dress shopping and custom-tailored clothes made at the Cotton House. In the evening, we were able to hit both the Sala Daeng and Silom night markets (where, sadly, vendors remembered "Am On (my Thai nickname) from Ubon!") and Dara and I met my friend I met earlier in Chiang Mai (Jim) on KaoSan Road for some GREAT shopping. We also celebrated my friend Travis's last night in Bangkok at Route 66 on RCA (a street literally just of clubs), so we saw lots of different areas of the city. Dara and I also made it to MBK mall (knockoff central!), and ran into my friend Ploy there! On our last day in Bangkok, and my last day of meetings, Mom and Dara joined me and the other Fulbrights at "English Camp." This was special to me because they got to see me teach, and to meet P'Tip, P'Kee, and everyone else at Fulbright. That night all of the Fulbrights and the few other parents that were in town went on an evening dinner cruise, hosted by Fulbright alum P'Ngae. However, between walking as a giant group to a nearby hotel, then waiting an hour, and then spending another hour in the cab, it took us nearly two and a half hours to make it to the boat! It really was beautiful to see everything on the Chao Phraya lit up at night, and I'm glad that Mom and Dara got to experience Bangkok by boat, too!

English Camp
(quite a view, no?)

Dinner cruise with all of the Fulbrights

Dara and Mom
(beautiful famous bridge in background)

Dara and me

James and Matt singing karaoke

Rachel and I in front of an illuminated Grand Palace

Mom, me, and Dara in front of Wat Arun

Sister pic!

The ever beautiful Wat Arun at night

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Mom & Dara's Visit, Part 1: Ubon

It has been so long since I last posted. However, I have a good excuse: I was traveling with my MOM AND SISTER IN THAILAND! My Mom just went home two days ago, after visiting me for nearly a month. She came to Thailand about 10 days before my older sister, Dara, joined us from London. After meeting my Mom at the airport in Bangkok, we hopped a flight to relax in my town for a week: Ubon! During this week together, my mom and I explored lots of wats with my Thai mom, Mahh Lahng, as well as hang out with my Thai host teachers P'Nuan, Paw Arnold, and Mahh Sarah, and...get lots of massages and eat lots of delicious street food outside of BoonMee Mansion (my apartment). One night we went for traditional sticky rice and som tam (papaya salad). As we ate, the owner of the shop asked if he could take our picture...My Mom was the new celebrity in town! We also explored the Old City one day, ate lunch at the market on the Mun River, and accepted a ride from a total stranger who was excited to show 2 farang around (and got us coconut and sugar cane drinks!) We also went souvenir shopping, buying some silk scarves and local Isaan prints. It was a great, wonderful week with her.

My sister showed up on April 29 after switching airports in Bangkok to catch a local flight up to Ubon. We had 1 and a half days together, so it was JAM-PACKED because I still wanted her to meet everyone in my life here, and I didn't want my Mom to have to repeat too many things. My Mom, P'Nuan and I picked Dara up at the Ubon airport. This was a surreal experience in itself :) We then drove straight to Baan Ku Muang School, where we met up with Paw Arnold and Maah Sarah, and I showed them my classroom, decorations, the canteen, new water filtration system, and our fancy thumbprint scanner! Then we quickly headed to the school farm, where we saw the fish in the pond I helped donate months ago, as well as rice fields (that weren't yet green womp womp!) We walked along the platform where a few neat houses on stilts sit, and explored the school director's "fairy house" (see post from "Mark's Visit & Ubon's National Parks!" from March). It was so surreal having them here!!! Then the 6 of us drove to one of my favorite, special-to-Ubon, lunch spots: Hat Ku Dua. We ate 4 DELICIOUS, "ARROY MAK!" different kinds of fish- cooked fresh from the river, as well as ordering a chicken and some vegetables. This was also the first time that Dara tried sticky rice!!! And loved it. Hat Ku Dua is a restaurant that is composed of little straw and wooden bungalows on the Mun River. The 6 of us also went to Ubon's famed Wat Patpong, and later in the afternoon P'Nuan took us to Wat Supatnaram Worawihan. There were monks chanting inside when we showed up, so we first went down to the Mun River to watch monster-shark-looking fish gobble up whole pieces of bread. Everyone was amazed. 

On Dara's Day 2, our final day in Ubon, we spent the early morning with my other host teacher, P'Noon, at Wat Pah Nanachat- the International Forest Monastery. We ate breakfast among the monks. Then we did a bit more Isaan shopping- clothing and woven baskets. After P'Noon dropped us off we were picked up by Mahh Lahng and went to a DELICIOUS Vietnamese food restaurant. One of my Top 5, ever... Then we went wedding dress shopping all afternoon for Dara. It turns out that many of Ubon's wedding dress shops are rentals, previously worn, and very fluffy, poofy, rhinestone-y gowns. We didn't find anything, really, but I am glad that we looked. It was so fun to go wedding dress shopping!

This is the first of several posts from our trip that I will follow up with shortly. I need to catch up, there is so much to share!

Inside Mom's first wat: 
Wat Nong Bua

so pretty

Mom and I outside Wat Nong Bua

Our wat excursion group with a monk
outside of the wooden-stilt wat:
Wat Tung Sri Muang

Mom placing gilt paper on giant gold balls outside of a wat
whose name I can't remember, while Mahh Lahng jokes around

Making merit inside the wat, while 5 year old Nomurri
takes some awesome pictures!

Trying lotus seeds

Gift time! 
Mom and I made a special trip to Mahh Lahng's to distribute
many thoughtful gifts to the whole family. Here, Nomurri plays
with some new English alphabet refrigerator magnets

At night, we went to dinner (aka karaoke) at Paw Arnold's 
and Maah Sarah's house.

AMAZING package from my dear friend Anuj- filled
with tons of goodies for my school and me :)
Thanks, Bro!

DARA AT MY SCHOOL!

Mom and I on the "magical" walk up to Baan Ku Muang School

Mom and Dara checking out the decorated bulletin board
outside of my classroom...with many pictures of them on it!

The girls :)

Mom and Dara INSIDE my classroom.
Whoah.

Dara and I chilling on a playground swing near the 
kindergarten wing

Mom had asked me to point out bananas growing if I saw them...
BINGO!

P'Nuan and Dara playing around near the stilt homes
at the school farm

We look "so Thailand," right?!

P'Nuan

Mahh Sarah joined us for the adventure!

Water buffalo stop!

Mom and Dara in the back of P'Nuan's
very stuffed animal-y car :)!

Giant python snake skins at Wat Patpong
(My first time here, too!)

Photo credit: Dara Richer
Mom and a dead alligator

P'Nuan, Mom, Paw Arnold, Maah Sarah, Dara

Dara and Mom - eating a BUG for the first time!

Hat Ku Dua FEAST

Wat Supatnaram Worawihan

A dog chilling inside the wat. It's considered a sin to kill anything 
near wats...I think some dogs have figured that out.

Dara and me getting ready to feed the huge fish!
(I am holding an entire loaf of bread...)

Feeding the pidgeons first!

Everyone amazed at the size of these fish...

Dara!

Dara, me and Mom at the Forest Wat

P'Noon, me and Mom

P'Noon, me and Dara

Mom, me and Dara 

Wedding dress shopping :)